Storm Chronicles: Signs Of Devastation Still Very Apparent
Four months after Superstorm Sandy slammed into Ocean County, the roads that run through Seaside Heights, Ortley Beach and other towns still show much damage
This is not going to be over soon.
Superstorm Sandy has forever transformed the lives of those who were directly affected by it. There is no going back to life the way it was. And only those who are living this nightmare each day and night can understand the constant daily stress, fear and worry.
Those who never had to leave their homes on that dark and terrifying day of Oct. 29, they cannot understand. Maybe they lost power for days and they were cold. Maybe some trees came down. And there are some who wonder why storm victims can't just get on with their lives and forget about Sandy.
They do not and cannot understand. We can't forget. The old cliche "unless it happens to you" is particularly apt here.
Sandy is not over for too many of us.
I took a ride over the Mathis bridge around dusk on Friday, after a visit to the Toms River DRC - or in FEMA speak - disaster recovery center. The skies were pewter, save for a thin sliver of blue. The setting sun poked through and cast an eerie yellow light on the crippled bayfront.
That was my first ride back heading north on Route 35 since Sandy blew up much of the northern barrier island. Four months in, it is still frightening.
The streets leading to the ocean in Ortley Beach were lit up with large spotlights, electric suns illuminating the devastation. Each road was barricaded. State police were stationed on each street.
I drove past Second Avenue, where my college roommate and her family lived and ran the Ortley House, a few decades ago. They lived in a nice yellow house, had a few smaller houses for rent and a large concrete building fronting the ocean with apartment units.
The apartment building was still standing. But a huge pile of rubble sat on the street. I can only assume the house and other buildings are gone now. I remember my roommate telling me how her older brothers had literally guarded the property with shotguns after the March 1962 nor'easter washed the original Ortley House out of sea.
I headed into Lavallette. I drove past the house a friend of my mine lived in, until Oct. 29. She will soon have to demolish the home her parents bought in the early 1950s. My friend is a cat lover. She had to farm her cats out to friends after the storm.
A group of homeless cats - Sandy survivors - huddled next to the foundation of her home. She goes to feed them and so do some of the building contractors.
Darkness was beginning to fall. I headed down Princeton Avenue to check out the home once owned by a good friend's parents back in the 1960s. It was still standing, but had a remediation company sign out in front. I called her from my car, to let her know the house was okay. She was glad. That home was a happy place for her family.
I began to get a little nervous while I sat there in my car. After all, there's been a curfew in the barrier island towns since the Sandy blitzkrieg. What if someone spotted my car lights and called the police? I soon realized there was no need to worry. Princeton Avenue - save for two houses at the end of the street - was dark. No one lives there.
Barnacle Bill's on Route 35 North was shuttered. The giant Paul Bunyan statue that once loomed next to the roadway disappeared during Sandy. We all hope the businesses can recover before the summer tourism season. But from the looks of things, that's not going to happen for many.
Maybe the boardwalk will be up and running in Seaside Heights by Memorial Day. I'm sure day visitors will flock to Seaside, partly for the entertainment and partly out of curiosity to see the damage. But who will want to rent a vacation home surrounded by such devastation?
The ride back over the Tunney bridge to the mainland was sobering. The bright necklace of lights that once twinkled along the waterfront is gone. There are few lights now.
Someone said to me last week that they had driven through my Bayville neighborhood and "it didn't look too bad."
Just because a house is not upside down or in the middle of the street doesn't mean people were not affected. Look for the remediation and contractor signs jutting from the lawns. Look for the dumpster and storage pods.
But if you really want to know what houses were affected, drive through at night and look at all the houses with no lights on. My house is one of them.
Four months in, we are still out of our home. We've made some progress, thanks to an flood insurance carrier that sent advance payments soon after the storm and settled the entire claim a month ago. We are luckier than many, many people.
I walked into the house a week ago. For the first time in nearly four months, I could not see my breath coming out in plumes in the cold. The heat was on. A small miracle.
But the stress of the long, slow slog towards recovery has worn me down. It's worn a lot of storm victims down. We are tired. We want to go home.
Only a Sandy survivor knows what it's like to try to sleep while bombarded by thoughts of what to do next. We grit our teeth when we sleep and wake up with clenched fists. My jaw aches from constantly bearing down on my teeth.
So if you're sick of hearing about Superstorm Sandy, please remember us. It's not over for us.
oldkodger
12:25 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
George Bush sure screwed this up
Pat
12:28 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Ocean City is still a mess yet the propaganda put out there for the public tries to paint a rosey picture of the town......as in.....business as usual in OC. NO it is NOT!! I really resent statements such as that. I am suffering...still homeless....home still not ready to live in as are countless of others. Please OC.....stop the lies!!!
Maria Herron
1:00 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
I agree with you. Although we can still live in our house, we had a lot of damage that is slow to fix. I feel empty and somewhat lost. I get sick watching the commericals telling everyone that OC is okay. I live in the south end. Just drive around and see the dumpsters and the empty houses and you will know it is not okay and it will not be for quite a while.
Amy Cavanaugh
12:33 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Amen. I too still live in a hotel. We lost everything in Seaside Heights, Oct 29, and in NO way is it over...
GB Shore
12:40 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
So sorry for those of you still affected. I am not being political here, but I fail to see the sense of sending $250 million dollars to Egypt when we have this going on here....WTF are our elected representatives in Washington doing? there is such a a lack of leadership it makes me sick...
oldkodger
4:01 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
gb- john hinze kerry was not elected to his current position but some idiots did put this traitor in positions of power
Ocean County republicon
4:16 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Georgie
I agree with you in regard to Egypt. All Foreign Aid needs to be cut.
However Happy Gilmore and Gov Chrisco doled out a no bid contract that fleeced the tax pays by nearly 50% which could have gone to those affected instead of into the republicon super pack to the tune of 300 k and that's a fact jack
butch cassidy
9:23 am on Friday, March 8, 2013
you right about that..whats with the 60 billion to syria ? i dont get it...what 1 billion not enough? john kerry stop giving away our money!
brokeninbayville
12:40 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Are Seaside bars open at night? I know there was a curfew.
butch cassidy
9:25 am on Friday, March 8, 2013
saw that klees and hemmingways are open...cause thats important....
jill dienemann
12:43 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
thank you for that heartfelt and real story which hit home for many who are shuffling thru their lives right now in limbo, waiting for checks, waiting for FEMA, just waiting....a wonderful description of how many people feel!
Michael reina
12:49 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
I lost my home i was renting in ortley for years....it was home. And as i drove threw my neighborhood yesterday the tears and just utter disbelief on my face....it still looks like it happened yesterday. The only difference is the debris from the inside of the homes is mostley gone...and even if my house was able to be lived in i dont no if i could look at the dismay and destruction and homowners walken in a daze ....i finally found a place in seaside. Tho its not my first choice being on the island is my life and nothen against seaside im just older and like quieter area....but i wont leave island.....but i also didnt loose what many have had passed down or had there life invested in. I do feel there pain i do know what its like as i lost a home ....but iam very shocked at how it looks and i feel its gonna be a quiet summer and i dont think people will feel much excitment and relaxation knowing and seeing all the abandoned homes and knowing how much pain there is in the air
anthony esposito
1:00 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
It will be a slow long road to recovery dont believe all the rhetoric
Patricia Perillo
1:59 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Anthony Esposito- When was the last time you drove through the barrier island, during the daytime, without consuming 80 proof liquor? Wake up and smell the grief, sadness and suffering that is going on here. Our rose colored sunglasses got washed away in the flood. Come down one and all and see all the wrecked homes and lives that remain devastated after 4 months. I too am homeless, a vagabond that have paid taxes for fifty years and now when we need help, lets give 250 million to the middle east, who raise our gas prices daily. What a joke our politicians, and government is. DO NOT FORGET THE MARCH 9th meeting !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lets go barrier island and fight back !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Michael Capo
4:46 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
As long as Toms River is involved, the road will continue to be slower and longer as well as more frustrating.
Martin
1:37 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Congress must amend the Biggert-Waters Act so that FEMA doesn't destroy the Shore with its erroneous maps, over-kill house-raising elevations and exorbitant annual insurance costs. FEMA has caused more damage than Sandy did.
Join the fight. MEETING Sat. Mar. 9th, 3-4 PM, Silverton First Aid Squad, 86 Maine (like the state) St., Toms River.
www.facebook.com/StopFemaNow www.StopFemaNow.com Twitter #StopFemaNow
Gov. Christie should use EMINENT DOMAIN to get easements for building dunes and replenishing beaches. Nobody's precious view is more important than my safety and my house. Sandy overwashed the barrier island, overfilling the bay and flooding my house on the mainland. Now there are flood warnings with every little storm.
After protecting the shoreline, clean out the bay (1 million cubic feet of sand, houses, boats, debris). Stop the floods, let boaters navigate it and generate revenues again.
Meanwhile, FEMA's abusive power must be curbed. Why should NJ's money bail out that federal bureaucracy from its Katrina debt? ==> StopFemaNow.com
ken
1:48 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Martin, we who live in the Southend of Ocean City have been "begging" our city officials to replenish the beaches down here. The last ten blocks were totally wiped out by Sandy. Prior to Sandy, many high tides met the dunes. We have ocean front homes and these are very popular beaches with tourists. We have been an authorized beach replenishment project for a few years, with no funding. We heard from the NJDEP and ACE last week, that "it is impossible to rebuild a beach that is underwater." The dredging project would be enormous, as the beaches are so eroded. Yet, no one seems to know how to cut through the red tape and replenish these beaches. Then we read that the red tape was cut and Atlantic City is scheduled for replenishment. The Governor decrees, "all NJ beaches will be replenished". When, who knows, Now we wait out another nor 'easter.
Martin
1:52 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
AC, boardwalks and businesses seem to be a priority over the 100,000 homeowners who are still suffering from Sandy and the second disaster called FEMA! It's tourists over taxpayers. Thanks for nothing, Gov.
StopFemaNow.com
Jeff Melchiondo
2:03 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
This article in today's Patch tells it all. So many people are still displaced and devastated that were along Sandy's path. Yet so many others think "all is well"...but it is not! Barnegat D.O.V.E., Operation Meatball & Stand Together And Give are out there every day still helping those in need & will be there for the long run. If you need help, contact Barnegat D.O.V.E. on Facebook. Thank you.
Mary Lynn Noonan-Toschi
2:04 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Thank you for so eloquently stating how so many of us feel. I live in Long Branch and have not suffered the devastation of a total loss of my home however I am still displaced and having difficulty rebuilding. I lost my power wheelchair in the flood and am still trying to get it replaced. I'm making headway with the flood insurance carrier but I believe there should have been more effort made to replace medical equipment immediately. It's been more than 4 months and I am still waiting!
It's hard for others to imagine what we are going through. It was hard for me to imagine before it happened to me. Thank you to everyone who has helped by volunteering or by donating. Your caring is helping us get through this. We want to go back to the Jersey Shore that everyone has known and loved.
Mark Wauben
2:12 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
I went home last Saturday morning to Brick...now that all the discarded wet piles of moldy carpet, insulation and furnishings have been hauled away it looks somewhat normal again except for that fact that its like a ghost town, and only two elderly couples are currently living on our block now...two houses across the street are condemned and will soon be bulldozed...my wife and I are just sick. Now we are just waiting...waiting for some indication of how to get back in our home again. Although we have received a lot of help and encouragement from our families ...we have to wait to get more information...do we mitigate our home and then somehow down the road elevate it with funds that we don't have? Or do we knock it down and rebuild a home that is elevated?...the decisions are unending...we have just enough money to replace most our belongings that were destroyed and to demolish the walls up four feet and replace all the floors, plumbing, electrical and appliances...but then what if we are required to then elevate our home due to the new flood base maps that won't become final until late this summer? In our minds we ask will this always be a sick house with a questionable foundation...so we wait for answers and debate the best solution for the future....all the while making mortgage payments on a home we cannot live in...its like being stuck in an elevator between floors...we ask each other where do we go from here?
Michelle V
2:32 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Mark,
The new "FEMA" rule is that if your insurance company gives you a "proof of loss" that shows you are more than 50% damage to the value of your house (based on tax assessment) you MUST raise your house within 4 years or you WILL NOT get a permit. You have to sign a legal document stating you agree to this. We are in Ortley Beach and plan to use our existing home as a garage and build on top of it, which seems to be an acceptable and more cost effective way to raise the house. Being in construction and the modular business I also have the option of knocking it down completely and building a modular, but the new foundation will be costly. As for Martin, not sure if you have been to Ortley in a while, but the dunes are built, so get over the "eminent domain" thing, it's not happening. If TR had built dunes pre-Sandy and the state had maintained the water over the years, none of us would be in this position. I too am waiting for money, waiting to rebuild, so no, I don't think there will be a summer in Ortley Beach or many other towns.
GB Shore
9:44 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
@Mark.....the new rules are just that...new rules....and may not apply to you at all. First, you need to work with your Flood Insurance Carrier. There are rules in place with regards to pre and post firm. In 1974, the maps were put in place. If your home was built before 1974, you are grandfathered in and are not beholden to the new rules. If your home was built after 1974, it then depends on how your flood insurance carrier writes the policy. If you home was bult in accordance with the building and construction codes AT THE TIME THAT THE HOME WAS BUILT, then you are not subject to having to comply with the new requirements. It states this right in the FEMA document guide. If you house was largely compromised, i.e., it HAS to be rebuilt because it was knocked off the foundation etc., then the new requirements would take effect.
Mark Wauben
2:24 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
My wife and I have never been through a flood before this one and like some of you have stated nothing can prepare you for the devastation that it caused...I know this though, when I see this happen to others in the future we will have much more compassion for what they must be going through and how a helping hand is needed by volunteers and individuals as much as FEMA and other groups that are assigned to help the victims. We just want to thank all those people who have helped us and other storm victims the last four months. Thank You.
Jeff in Sa-ra-so-ta!
2:36 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Since the storm happened "out of season", as you drive up and down 35, it can just look as if it were a bad storm and businesses closed for the winter, such as in the case of Barnacle Bill's.
The effects and realities will become more apparent when July 4th comes around. But, instead of looking at how bad it is (that would be a natural reaction) look at how much progress has been accomplished.
Remember, the strip wasn't built over one winter, either.
DK
3:02 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Great story Pat. I haven't made it back home yet in Brick, living in Monmouth County. I feel your same pain. Travis
Patricia A. Miller
11:32 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Thanks, Travis. Hope we get home soon.
oldkodger
4:13 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
I hope obama's summer rental in the Hamptons is ok
Ocean County republicon
4:17 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
hows your fema claim hypocrite
Local4Life
5:17 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Barnacle bills so sad, I witnessed all of the arcades on the sidewalk waiting for the trashman, so many pinball machines. I know we all have plenty of other issues, but those pinball machines hurt to see. Good luck to everyone, reach out for help, it's around. Have faith the fema maps will be updated, they just have to be. Sadly we are all in limbo until then.
barbara
6:33 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Yes, can definitely relate to this article. We rent our toms river home, was always our home, to our son and his girlfriend. Off Fischer Blvd. 5 1/2 feet of water. After it was gutted i went there and could not stop crying, this was our home since 1983. Well, many sleepless nights, mind whirling, many, many phone calls and red tape. Depression has sunk in. My son, girlfriend, daughter and granddaughter and in laws from seaside all homeless, took them all in, devestating......luckily in laws were able to rent next door to me from my generous snow bird neigbor. They will not go back to their home, it sits there. This week, after much labor from my husband, son, family members and good friends, the kids could go back home. Now here comes another flood warning, omg, can't take this anymore. Not looking for pity, just need to vent. My elderly in laws lost all, they are now moving near us, but still have the seaside house, which they don't know what to do with. Putting it on the market, but lucky if we can sell it.........sad, just so dam sad......can't take this anymore......
Michelle V
11:29 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Barbara, don't put the house on the market, fix it and rent it if you have too...have heard of so many people taking pennies on the dollar already! Unfortunately the blood suckers are already out looking to steal houses from people. It is sad and those of us in the same boat "get it"...just do your best to hang on.
SANDY PARISI
7:21 pm on Thursday, March 7, 2013
Barbara, you tell your story very eloquently and your pain and the pain of your family members comes through. Your story is so awful and as I read it and remember Super Storm Sandy (I had no problem except no electric for a day & a half), it reminds me that your problems are multiplied by hundreds of others. How any of you are managing must be such a struggle. Don't say your comment is just a need to vent. No, what you and others are struggling through is so real. How all of you have gone through this for months I don't know. Do know there are people, seniors with little resources and strength, pray each day for the support and help all of you need and the time to be soon that this will all be only a memory instead of a daily horror. I believe in a Higher Power and know the prayers are being heard. You will be blessed.
Local4Life
6:41 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
http://nolaslate.blogspot.com/2012/10/unsolicited-advice-to-northeast-in.html?m=1
Barbara, little by little this message from a Katrina victim keeps coming back up in my mind, hang in there, try not to sell the house now, you'll get no where near what is worth. The parade is this weekend :), hooks is having an fu sandy theme...
Southbond
6:48 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Like so many of you, we too, are Sandy victims. The storm left 17" of water in our home. Just enough to ruin everything. The entire contents of our home, our lives, were thrown to the curb. As the town trucks were discarding our personal belongings, my heart broke as the tears ran down my face. At that moment, I actually felt like I was living a nightmare. I kept waiting to wake up, eventually, reality set in. Our waterfront community now looks like a good day in Newark. Homes are demolished, boarded up and/or abandoned. Debris is still scattered throughout the neighborhood. After 5 days on the market, we received a contract, great offer, cash deal. We're headed south, out of state. After fighting with NJ Manu. we FINALLY got the amount we wanted. You have to fight with your ins.co. Don't settle. It took us 4 months. We're done with NJ Manu. They suck! I wish everyone the best of luck.
barbara
6:53 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Thank you Local4Life.........
this link so true.....
barbara
6:55 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Good luck Southbond.......
Southbond
7:21 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Thank you Barbara and good luck to you also. I keep waiting to wake up.....Sandy devastated the coastline, ruined lives and destroyed some marriages.....Sandy changed all of us forever.
Mary Ann
7:42 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Tough times don't last . . . Tough people do!
shorefriend
8:25 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Mary Ann, That's a great phrase!!
As a close and personal friend to 1 of the 67 living in Ortley right now I can only descibe his pain as PTSD. His home was not significantly damaged but his soul is!
Eugene B. {at the Beach}
7:54 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
anyone know if the Point Beach boys basketball team won ? game was sold out and about a hundred fans were left outside listenening for results.
M Brodeur
10:48 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Point Beach boys won by around 30 points. Sorry you could not get in.
barbara
8:02 pm on Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Hear ya, Southbound.....Can't wait to get over all this and move to Naples, Fla......someday...
Nick Carraway
12:31 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Great article. Thank you. For those who didn't suffer damage or only minimal damage, they need to remember that there are now countless families who are homeless. They are not the "homeless" that you see on city streets. They are people who had homes, lives, jobs, paid their taxes and mowed their lawns. It was all there one day and, literally one day later, it was gone. Families went generations living in the same house, never seeing the type of damage that came on October 29. New houses may sound great, but for those who now have to build them, it wasn't a choice. It's hard to keep making lemonade out of this pile of lemons.
Jeff in Sa-ra-so-ta!
7:15 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
The ocean met the bay in that one around Mantoloking, if memory serves me, but, now, it looks minimal compared to Sandy.
I want my beach back
8:19 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Need to thank Toms River for attempting to protect the Ocean from parts of Ortley Beach. However, this is just a very temporary fix, which is costing the tax payers thousands of dollars. Additionally, let it be understood that these piles of sand that are being placed on our beaches are NOT "DUNES" as is being reported by various television reporters, they are "Piles of Sand" and are just a temporary fix. We must all write to our Legislatures, the Army Corps of Engineers and Governor and anyone else you may listen that they must build our dunes properly, they must provide beach restoration as soon as possible, not two years down the road and the Governor must take action against the private beach owners and make them either sign an easement to take care of the beaches or direct them exactly as to how the beaches needed to be protected in accordance with the State Rules and Regulations, not those of the private beach owners. I see that some of the private beach owners are taking it upon themselves to move sand from our beaches to protect their own private property, since when is that allowed?
Michelle V
11:34 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
I want my beach back...not sure who told you private beaches are taking sand from public beaches. I live in a private community and we have been rebuilding our dunes properly with our own funding. We had dunes prior to Sandy which saved most homes in our community. Go complain to TR about not building proper dunes pre-Sandy and even now in front of the surf club..that open space will continue to flood Ortley. Bottom line is TR never did the job right in the first place so people need to stop blaming Ortley residents for what TR did not do.
Bayville Mom
9:02 am on Wednesday, March 6, 2013
I keep seeing that Toms River and Brick are having voluntary evacuations. I was wondering why Berkeley wasn't. Oh yeah! There is no one left to evacuate. Most of the houses are EMPTY (including mine). Good Luck to all. I feel your pain, frustration and dispare.
butch cassidy
9:28 am on Friday, March 8, 2013
so sad wish i could just run away
Bowie Thelonius
5:22 pm on Monday, March 11, 2013
Yesterday, I drove from Bay Head to Seaside Hts., for the first time since the storm. I hadn't done it earlier for a couple of reasons, one being that it was impossible until fairly recently, but more so because I didn't want to be a disaster tourist. I remember the day after Sandy, and how many people came to gawk at the boats on the railroad tracks in Pt. Beach, and clog up Rte 88 to come and have a look. I never wanted to be in that group. I'm a Shore native, and have lived here nearly my entire life. As we drove south on route 35 yesterday I wanted to cry. I couldn't believe what I was seeing, and I live eight blocks from the ocean. I sincerely hope houses and lives can be reconstructed in some way. My heart goes out to anyone who lost what they had, their homes, possessions, way of life, and security.
anonymous
2:29 am on Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Wow so many peaple that were living their dream of living at the jersey shore as close to the water as possible now are living through a nightmare. I always saw peaple living near the boardwalks or close to the ocean as elite or semi retired living the way peaple settle down when they have it all together. I think it is shamefull the way fema is treating a lot of you and I take little lesson away from the whole thing. I wish all of you the best of luck and hope your nightmare turns into your dream again.
Michelle V
2:33 am on Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Thank you from one Ortley Beach person....nice to have someone say something nice after a day of nasty remarks from so many